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Emotional Abuse is more painful than Physical

   Posted by: Janahan Balasingham

Why do parents believe that since they gave birth to you, they have complete control over everything you do? How do you make them understand that we have our own mind and want to live our life the way we choose instead of how they deem is the right path?

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Journey Back to Srilanka

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It is 30th of April and my final day in London. Today I’m flying out of the country back to Srilanka where I will have to rebuild everything. Most people feel homesick or happy that they are going back to the country they were born in. I grew up in Srilanka for 18 years but for some weird reason, I consider London as my home and Srilanka as a place I used to live at. Read the rest of this entry »


Life Altering Decision

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I’m sort of at an emotional turmoil lately and I would very much like to hear opinions before I make a decision that would change my life.

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Health Update

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After realizing the seriousness of my health problem, I pushed my GP explaining the urgency for an appointment to get my MRI scan. He informed NHS and they called me to setup the appointment last saturday (2nd  of June). Went to the hospital to get the scan.
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Apologies are not so easy

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Like I’ve said many times, I have commitment issues. I dislike the idea of being in a relationship or being responsible of somebody other than myself. Because if I screw up, I will not only be blamed for destruction of my future but someone else’s too. I don’t want to face that burden in my life. And I also love my freedom and independence.

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